Housework is a required course for children
Core tip: Do you let your children do housework?
Most of the parents will shake their heads.
Do you do housework at home?
Most children also shake their heads: housework is a compulsory course for children’s growth.
Fan Jianguoyi: This course is the best I have taken.
Daddy Dongzi-Do you let your children do housework?
Most of the parents will shake their heads.
Do you do housework at home?
Most children also shake their heads.
Children are getting farther and farther away from housework.
At present, more than 85% of urban primary and secondary students do not do housework at all.
The reason is that, first, there is only one child in the family. The child is petted by grandparents and parents at home, enjoying the property of the little emperor and princess. Most people ca n’t love it.
Second, many parents view housework and study as a contradiction.
Isn’t housework to delay learning?
The child’s main task is to learn, what do you do with the housework?
Therefore, when a child proposes to do housework, most parents will say, “Without you, you can write your homework (see a book).
“Parents want their children to be versatile, they want to learn dance, painting, and singing. They want to learn everything, but they don’t let children learn to do housework.
Thirdly, some parents even think that doing housework is an unproductive performance. Children should have the ability to study well for college. In the future, they should be noble as long as they have to do part-time work. There is no need to learn to do it now.
In short, parents only stare at their children’s learning, and put improving their performance first in educating their children. However, for the cultivation of self-care ability, they are indifferent and indifferent.
In fact, doing housework does not affect learning at all, and in order to improve children’s abilities, improving academic performance is also helpful.
Because: First, it can exercise children’s hands-on ability and problem-solving ability, which directly affects the improvement of children’s logical thinking ability, which can improve children’s mathematical and physical learning ability and language logic ability; second, it can cultivate children’s self-confidenceHeart, the more things a child can do, the stronger self-confidence and the more optimistic the whole person is. Third, the child can develop a sense of responsibility, understand the hardships of his parents through housework, and then know how to take responsibility.Fourth, labor can exercise and give the brain a full rest.
Therefore, when the child continues to study, he proposes to do housework, and even for the purpose of restoring the child’s brain, it should not be refused.
At first, I didn’t want the benefits of doing housework. I just thought that letting the child do the housework was what she should do.
Therefore, I take housework as a homework and let Yiyi study it as seriously as learning Chinese and mathematics.
As her daughter’s ability to take care of herself increased day by day, while doing her own thing, she began to try to help us do something.
Yiyi’s real household chores started with buying vegetables.
At the age of five and a half, when Yiyi was going to eat at noon one day, her mother thought of buying things in the market, but couldn’t walk away.
When she was worried, Yiyi understood her mother’s embarrassment, so she volunteered to apply for her to buy it.
Her mother was a little hesitant, her child was small, the market was not too close to home, and the market was very complicated. How could she be assured that she would go to the market alone?
I encourage her to say that it is better to let the child go once, and the bird will never fly without leaving the nest.
So, the wife took the money to Yiyi, explained that she bought oil cakes and kelp, and explained in detail the precautions when going out to buy things, such as not talking to strangers, and trying to answer without asking the stranger; do n’t stay when you buy, Hurry home; bring your money and stuff, don’t lose it . Yi Yi promised one by one, with an impulse and fascination to take risks.
Bringing the money out of the door, and listening to the door slamming, I stood on the balcony and watched the road to the market.
After a while, Yiyi’s small figure appeared in my field of vision. I saw her jumping around, looking at it from time to time, and quickly turned into the market.
I haven’t seen anyone for a long time, and my eyes hurt because I didn’t see her.
Calculate in her heart what she is buying at this time, what to buy next, how to count so continuously that she should go out of the market and appear on the road I noticed.
But why isn’t it a shadow?
I was a little anxious, and the more I wanted to stay, the more I walked back from the balcony to the house and planned to go downstairs to take a look.
But as soon as I arrived in the living room, I heard the doorbell rang. From the cat’s eyes, Yiyi returned! It turned out that I hadn’t noticed that she had already gone that way, and while I was still anxious on the balcony, she had already gone upstairs.
: The door, greeted Yiyi into the house, and saw her holding hot cakes on her left and kelp wire on her right.
She changed her shoes and proudly raised her hands to show the fruits of her labor.
This is the first time that Yiyi independently went shopping at the downstairs market more than 100 meters away from home and successfully completed the task.
Since then, Yiyi has often offered to ask her to help her mother go downstairs to buy things.
However, an interesting story happened once.
Yiyi, who has always completed the task beautifully, bought the wrong dish this time.
There was a guest that day, and her mother was busy in the kitchen.
After finishing the homework, Yiyizheng wanted to go downstairs to play, and listened to his mother talking to herself in the kitchen: “Not enough coriander.
“I should buy it?”
“Yiyi applied to her mother as usual.
”Okay, hurry up and hurry back.
“Mom agreed happily.
Because this is not the first time Yiyi has gone downstairs to buy things, her mother is very relieved.
In less than 10 minutes, Yiyi returned, holding the “coriander” that she bought, and placed her face like a little hero, waiting for her praise.
Her mother took a look: “Baby, isn’t this celery?
“I saw my mother frown, and Yiyi was incredible. I took the dish in front of myself and looked at it carefully. Is that correct? Isn’t this coriander?
It ‘s the same as the coriander that I usually eat, the leaves are the same, and the stem is the same, except that the “cilantro” I took in my hand is bigger than usual.
Large, it means that the growth is good. When I bought such good coriander, my mother did not praise me, but instead said that I bought it wrong, but I really felt wronged.
Yiyi thought, her mouth narrowed.
After listening to Yiyi’s statement, her mother smiled: “The coriander and celery are very similar, but the celery is bigger and the coriander is smaller.
Celery has thick stems and large leaves, and it doesn’t smell like cilantro.
The baby didn’t buy it right, and the mother didn’t blame you at all.
Then you will know what coriander and celery are.
“After listening to my mother’s explanation, think about the cilantro and celery that I usually eat. It’s really like my mother said:” It turns out that celery is the brother of cilantro!
“Yiyi smiled embarrassedly.
To correct his mistake, Yiyi turned and went to the market again.
This time, Yiyi didn’t go to the vegetable stand to pick up the vegetables, but she told the aunt selling vegetables to buy coriander.
Watching my aunt pick out a few celery-like things from a pile of vegetables and hand them over.
Yiyi took it over, and compared it with the celery next to it. Sure enough, one was the older brother and the other was the younger brother.
So he took the coriander home with confidence.
Later, Yiyi purchased more and more content, not just temporary food and vegetables.
No matter what she was asked to buy, she did very well.
Letting children learn to take care of themselves and take care of themselves and their families is a course that children learn.
If you truly love your child, let your child do the chores that she can do every day.
Daughter Fan Jiang Guoyi — The housework I am participating in is already a little helper for my parents, and sometimes even the protagonist, like shopping for food.
That day I came to the market again, picking cucumbers and eggplants.
When Dad used to buy things, I always followed him. Gradually, I also learned to choose good and cheap items. So when Dad didn’t want to go downstairs, I was shopping for my home.Buy daily necessities.
This is not the time for me to play again. Two days ago, there was no food at home and my dad was busy, so I went to my dad to take the “task”.
Every time I get money from my dad, remember what you need to buy, and then go out to buy. After you return, give the remaining money to your dad and report it. This time too, I went out and went straight to the vegetable market in front of my house. I saw my “prey” at a glance: eggplant.
A middle-aged woman dressed as an aunt in the countryside sells vegetables and asks me in non-standard Mandarin: “Girl, what’s the point?
I pointed at the eggplant and said, “Auntie, I buy eggplant.
Aunt nodded happily, handed a blue plastic bag and said, “Choose it yourself!
“I took the bag and put two big and one small eggplants with smooth and reflective surfaces into plastic bags.
Then I asked, “Are there any cucumbers?
Auntie said yes, as she came over to open a box covered with cloth, the crisp and lovely gherkins came into view. Auntie brought another bag. I took a few heads and there were little yellow flowers”Big Yellow Flower”.
In the end, I gave both auntie to her to help me weigh it. The auntie told me after a while and said, “Eggplants are four and cucumbers are seven. There are three in one. You give the aunt three!
“After I paid, I walked home with vegetables .